Steps

  1. Start a private log, somewhere only you can reach, and add each incident with date, time, place, what happened and witnesses.
  2. Save screenshots of messages or posts with the date and the account name visible, and back them up.
  3. At work, find the harassment policy and the named person to report to, such as a manager or human resources.
  4. Report in writing by email and keep a copy; ask what happens next and when.
  5. Online, use the platform's report tool, then block or mute once you have saved evidence.
  6. For threats, stalking or anything that makes you fear for your safety, report to the police with your log.
  7. Ask an employment lawyer or your state's civil rights office about your options if the response is inadequate.

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